Growing a Life You Love

I need to share with you a secret to growing the sort of life you like. Before I do I must warn you. This secret is essentially known and misunderstood, and it is so common that few of us actually concentrate on applying it daily. I would like to talk about LOVE. Love has a lot of meanings depending on who you are speaking to. However, when love is rightly accepted and applied it creates an environment in your life that makes quantum jumps probable in each other area of your life. Now, I must confess that for years I believed of love as just an action or a feeling. Something you probably did to or for another, or a feeling that you felt due to what some other person did. Whilst these definitions might loosely reflect truth they actually serve to puzzle us about the true nature of love.

Love is an environment.

Love is something you put on, and in fact it's more to do with you, then someone else. Love is best accepted as a full bodied garment that one must put on and wear at any time. It isn't just an action but a way of being. Sadly, many that read this may have learned a version of love that's lived thru a veil of judgment.

Judging is really the opposite of love and shouldn't have any place whatsoever in the life of one who practices love. When real love is practiced on all fronts of an individual's life they adore not only all folks but each taking place and thing in their life. They are crammed with gratitude for everything that is their life at every point. They do not fight the flow of God's design in the universe but become conscientious to it's song and learn how to dance to its rhythm. This then creates the right soil for hope to take root and religion to work its wizardry. Here is where the gardening analogy becomes active. Think about making your life like inclining to a garden. If the soil, the environment, is good then anything will grow ; and it'll grow with ease. When the soil is hard, full of weeds, and often poor, then you can still grow things but your choice of what you can grow is limited and it takes a ton more work.

When you and I create an environment of love in all directions, then manifesting and captivating the life we'd like is far easier. Love leads to actions but it's not an action. Love gives way to feelings but it is not a feeling. Love could be voiced in a commitment but it is not a commitment. Love must be worn! You must practice love for yourself, this suggests forgiving yourself, love for your past, love for the place you are in life, love for your dreams, love for your design, and love for all you meet. Sure you might keep working hard to produce a handsome life out of guilt, worry, control, judgment, hate, acrimony, and fear.

AND perhaps if one works hard enough and make the correct selections you may actually bear the luscious fruit you need. BUT WHY? Why kill yourself when there's a better way? Religion , HOPE, and LOVE and the best of these is love.